They have never experienced the happiness and happiness they have: sometimes they complain that their parents don't understand themselves, but they don't know that it is a kind of happiness to be glad that their parents are alive; Sometimes complaining that children are naughty and disappointing, but they don't know how to be proud of healthy and lively children; Sometimes I complain that my work is unsatisfactory and my income is unsatisfactory, but I don't want to think that there are still many unemployed people who have no jobs. In order not to be worse than others, people who compare with others try their best to make money and work hard for houses, cars, tickets, face and so on. They are tired a lot; Health is a lot worse, and in this endless comparison, my friend, do you know that your happiness and happiness have quietly passed away?
Comparison is not equal to enterprising and competition, just as life is not equal to pursuing fame and profit. In fact, life does not need to be too complete. Knowing that everyone's life is lacking, you won't make unnecessary comparisons with others. On the contrary, you will cherish everything you have. Sometimes happiness is not desperately pursuing what you want, but cherishing what you have now. Want to get happiness and happiness is actually very simple and easy to achieve; But if you want to be happier than others, it is difficult to achieve. If you know that you already have a lot, and accept and treat the missing part well, your life will be much happier.
So we don't have to envy other people's beautiful gardens, because you also have your own paradise. Fate gives us joy and opportunity, but it also gives us regret and pain. We don't need to complain and cringe. Clouds gather flowers and fall, cold comes and summer goes, spring comes and winter goes, and you can stay or stay at will. You don't care about things, you don't care about yourself, you keep a normal heart, you face everything in life smartly, you cherish your own life and enjoy it, you refuse to compare, you are content with peace and tranquility, and you treat life with an open and inclusive attitude, which will reduce a lot of helplessness and troubles and increase happiness and sunshine. And these are enough to make you happier!
Rejecting a mediocre life is like mushrooms after rain, just a fleeting moment in the long river of history. However, in this very short time, how many people have wasted their time, wasted their so-called years, came to this world in ignorance, and will leave this world with a sigh. I refuse this life!
In contrast, I'd rather be a big wave at sea and fight against the strong wind. I would like to be the snow on the top of the Himalayas all year round to attract brave people to climb. I would like to be a huge stone standing on Easter Island, which makes countless tourists daydream, but I don't want to be mediocre and live a monotonous life day after day.
Life is like running water, which originates from an unknown stream and meanders to rivers and seas. If this road is always bright sunshine and vast plains, it will be a pity and sorrow if you can't appreciate the ever-changing nature and touch the valleys of the earth. A drop of water is always a mediocre drop of water, which only changes time and space.
If you can experience the changing situation and the mountains are high and deep, you can roar in the wind, hold it in the rain, water it in a dry place, water it in a steep place, swing it in a winding place, hit it in an obstacle, and finally the stream flows to the sea. Although a drop of water is still a drop of water, it has experienced and felt all the stirring processes from the stream to the sea, and it is no longer a drop of mediocrity.