As the saying goes, parents are role models for their children. Usually, behind the excellent children grow into outstanding talents, there is always a shadow of a warm and harmonious family; Similarly, when a person forms an imperfect personality, factors full of conflicts and contradictions can also be found in the family. Therefore, parents' efforts to create a good growth environment for their children are an important part of forming a correct concept of parental education.
In a learning family, parents' educational philosophy is to grow up with their children and even learn from each other. They often have some successful influence ways, such as parent-child reading, parent-child communication, telling growth stories and so on. The growth of parents, like the growth of children, is an endless process, that is to say, parents have been working hard to establish a correct educational concept all their lives, and their continuous progress and study have an intangible and profound impact on their children, thus giving play to the advantages of a correct parental educational concept.
Morality is more important than learning, and state is more important than methods, which are the core of a correct view of parent education.
The most important task of family education is to build the Great Wall of Personality. The person you meet in life is often a handsome man who covers up all ugliness. Be a good boy if you get high marks and good grades. In fact, among the factors that affect lifelong development, scores are not the most important. It is morality, personality, happiness, popularity and respect, not knowledge. Therefore, parents must establish a correct concept of parental education when educating their children, which will lay a solid foundation for the sound development of their personality. We have noticed that many parents care too much about learning. As long as they get good grades in the exam, they promise everything, realize all their wishes and honor all their promises. This is a very bad embodiment of parents' educational concept, which is worrying. Not long ago, a graduate student of Fudan University committed suicide by jumping off a building. He is the champion of liberal arts college entrance examination in a province. It should be said that his academic performance is outstanding, but so what? His parents raised him for nothing, so it is better to be admitted to the children left by the university and make no contribution to society. This shows that the incorrect concept of parental education is harmful.
It is not a scientific concept of parental education to occupy children's childhood.
People often think that children nowadays have no childhood and no happiness. As long as you enter school, you will have no good life. Before entering kindergarten, parents had many dreams to let their children play the piano, draw pictures, sing and dance ... As soon as they entered the school and entered the examination circle, many parents quit the previous games. Of course, learning is not for children's happiness, but for many fantasies. This unscientific concept of parental education will gradually stifle children's hobbies, and the rest is "bitterness". Happiness is an experience, enjoying the happiness of education, a realm of education and the effect of establishing a correct view of parents' education.
Paying attention to the role of reading is part of the correct concept of parent education.
Reading is a very important way for children to purify their souls and sublimate their personality. For children's growth, the main task is reading. But nowadays students seldom read books except textbooks. Generally speaking, children who read widely must be open-minded, full of energy, ambitious and persistent. Therefore, letting children read more books is the correct concept of parent education.
Reading is the most important for people's growth. Those energetic nations in the world, such as Jews, must love reading. The three greatest figures in modern history all came from the Jewish nation: Marx changed people's view of society with materialist dialectics, Einstein established a brand-new view of the universe with relativity, and Freud made people know themselves more accurately with psychoanalysis, which fully explained the great influence of reading on people's life. Therefore, advocating children to read more books is the embodiment of parents' correct educational concept and can have a positive impact on children's life.