Judging from the children's sacred amethyst,

"If you don't teach, it's your father's fault."

. The ancients were interested in family education.

The important role of education in children's education is actually very clear. As young parents,

I don't have much experience teaching children.

There is really a lot of knowledge here,

Those who usually study also

Not much,

So there are still many shortcomings and imperfections.

Add a real question.

Is to have grandparents at home,

Grandparents' care,

And we have been teaching children for two generations.

Different views on education,

In this way, their children are even less educated.

In other words,

How do we want to educate our children,

But the elders wouldn't let us do that,

we have

There is only more accommodation and tolerance.

As long as you don't go against some of your own ideas about educating children.

The bottom line and principles are generally based on the ideas of elders, and more care and forgiveness are needed. this is

My first feeling.

Secondly, we say that it is better to put on a show than to shout it out loudly. For children's education, family rings

The influence of the environment will affect children more subtly.

For example, you teach children to be good all day.

Study, do your homework carefully, stay at home all day, or often go out to play mahjong and so on. you

Teach children to be polite,

Respect the elders,

You haven't done enough for your parents and elders.

In position. Wait, all this,

If we don't set a good example ourselves, let's teach.

What you have to do to raise children is really pale and powerless. Or the children will follow.

You follow the example of Yang and obey Yin.

Deceive the superior and deceive the inferior.

So my second feeling is that I have nothing.

Theory or a too good way to educate children,

Then I'll set a good example for my father first.

oneself

Don't get into any bad habits. Teach imperceptibly with your own actions and performances.

Educate children.

Thirdly, it is very important to educate children according to what you attach importance to their cultivation.

If you pay too much attention to your child's academic performance,

The score of the project,

Will do a few topics

Standards, then for the education of children in the future, it will be a pity, or a pity.

For me,

I value children's behavior habits most,

Etiquette and morality,

Responsibility,

Endurance,

Endurance, resistance to setbacks, independence and so on. With these, children will develop freely in the future.

Space and ability are very strong,

Don't worry about your parents all the time.

So my goal.

I trained my children to graduate from junior high school,

These abilities are basically moldable,

In the future, whether children learn or not,

Study, work or get married,

We just need to point out from the side and don't make a fuss.

don't worry

It's gonna be okay.

Finally, put it into practice,

It can be summarized in one sentence.

Let go a little.

Naturally, don't impose the will of parents on children; When things happen. Don't force children to do it.

What, meet the so-called requirements of parents. But there must be certain requirements and rules.

Yes, I can't figure out how. We should consciously cultivate children's behavior habits and manners.

Morality, responsibility, endurance, endurance, anti-frustration, independence and so on. If you are a child.

If you can't do it, don't blame it blindly, that is, apply both hard and soft, or even cajole and cheat.

The above is my little experience in educating children.