How to deal with a stubborn child mother? The baby's stubborn personality makes many parents have a headache. Once a character is formed, it is difficult to change. Therefore, most of our parents think that we should find a good way to discipline our children. The following is how to deal with the sharing of stubborn children's mothers.

What should mothers do in the face of stubborn temper? 1 1, how to educate stubborn children.

Parents should respect their children's desire for independence, and parents should let your children do it themselves, touch it themselves, think about it themselves, and do it themselves. Don't interfere with him even if he can't do it in time. Parents should give their children as many opportunities as possible and create an activity environment for them. Criticize and educate children not to nag, and parents' improper words and deeds to their children.

Parents have the responsibility to remind or advise their children, even criticize them seriously, but they must be concise and don't repeat or reprimand them all the time. In addition, pay attention to words and deeds, and use actions and some role models to guide your children to develop their self-education ability. Parents should pay attention to spiritual communication with their children.

2. The reason for the child's bad temper

First, it is because parents spoil their children too much. Children can control everything at home. If they don't listen to him once, he will lose his temper as a means of threatening adults. Second, parents' unprincipled accommodation.

Some parents are flustered when they see their children lose their temper, and they are at a loss. They will agree to all unreasonable demands of their children. In the long run, children will naturally come to the conclusion that everything can be solved as long as they are angry. Third, some parents fail to make promises to their children, or delay for too long, thus making their children angry and issuing various forms of confrontational behavior.

3. Children's grumpy way of getting along

First of all, we should respect children and try to consider the problem from their perspective. Most grumpy children appear in bossy and doting families. In an arbitrary family, parents think their children are their own and have the final say. Children must listen to their own words, which can easily cause children's rebellious psychology and gradually form a stubborn temper.

Encourage children more and blame them less. Many young parents take good care of their children, but they are always worried about them. They think that children are neither good nor excellent. They always compare their children with other children, almost looking for their shortcomings with a magnifying glass. Children live with accusations and lessons, become selfish and stubborn, and confront their parents.

Why are children becoming more and more stubborn?

1. Children are not only the hope of the family, but also the hope of the society. Parents are the first teachers to open children's minds and morals, which have great influence on the healthy development of children's psychology and behavior.

For the sake of family and society, parents must have the right attitude and methods to raise their children, strive to do so, give their children a good family environment, and set an example for their children by living in harmony; Parents should care and cherish their children, establish interdependent and caring feelings with them, pay attention to emotional communication, find out their problems in time and educate them in time.

2. Children who have been beaten and scolded for a long time will not only become more and more stubborn, but also show bad behaviors such as lying and aggression. Because these children feel that they can't get warmth in the family, they will run away from home when they encounter setbacks, and even be used by bad people and embark on the road of crime.

We should have a correct attitude towards parenting and avoid rude abuse and unprincipled doting; Parents should constantly improve their cultural quality and ideological level in order to give their children a good education.

How to cultivate children's growth

1, don't compare children.

I won't compare her with other children, because children are not comparable. Living in the glory of others is a nightmare that they will never get rid of, and may never completely erase their humiliation and inferiority. Comparing children with others will only weaken their self-confidence.

Being good friends with children, I regard myself as her good friend, not as a mother. Read books, play games, watch TV with her, listen to her talk about school and classmates, listen to her tell stories and sing songs.

2. Give more encouragement to children.

Children are timid when they are young, and they can talk and sing in front of their families. But outside, she will be timid and never take the initiative to hold the child's hand. To this end, I always encourage and praise the child's usual performance, so that she can establish self-confidence. Pay attention to the method of criticizing children. After all, children are children and often make small mistakes.

What should a mother do in the face of stubborn children? What if the child is stubborn?

1, good at observing, trying to figure out the child's psychology and helping to correct it. Because children have their own ideas and opinions, adults must not impose their opinions on children, but can consult with them.

2, you can't let children casually. Sometimes you have to reason with her first. If not, just ignore her and give her a cold treatment. Don't be soft-hearted Once you are soft-hearted, you will give up all your efforts and give up halfway, making your child more willful. You must stick to the principle question and let her know that some questions are just losing your temper, and it is useless to lose your temper.

Why is the child stubborn?

1. The main reason why children are disobedient and grumpy is that they have reached the age of longing for respect, but if their demands are often not allowed, they are always told by their parents that they can't, can't and can't do that. Based on this, children will be emotionally unstable because they are not respected, and there will be cases of deliberate opposition and disobedience to their parents.

2. The children's fault lies in their parents' educational mistakes. You can't put all the results on the children just because you can't see your mistakes and educational mistakes clearly. Children are born with a blank sheet of paper, on which are written their parents.

The child's stubbornness is related to Otawa's parents' education. If parents always deny their children and restrict their freedom, and you don't let them do what they want, children will gradually become disobedient, and the older they grow, the greater their tendency to rebel. Parents should communicate with their children more and talk about anything.

In the face of stubborn temper, what about the three educational methods for children who are disobedient?

There are always some internal special reasons for children's disobedience. At this time, parents should pay attention to observation and analysis and find the right reasons. Carefully observe and patiently guide the children, and the two sides should not oppose each other. Know your rules, but make sure your children know what they are.

Divert the child's attention.

When children reach a certain age, they will go through a period of psychological retrogression. No matter what an adult says, he won't listen. When you meet such a child, you should be patient and persuade. If it doesn't work for a long time, you might as well put things aside and do something else to distract your child. After a while, maybe the effect will be much better.

Find out the reason and prescribe the right medicine.

There are always some internal special reasons for children's disobedience. At this time, parents should pay attention to observation and analysis and find the right reasons. For example, if a child doesn't feel any injustice, is unhappy, can't say it, and can't let it go, he will take the opportunity to vent to his parents and do everything that is unfavorable to them. At this time, we must find ways to let the children release their inner grievances. For another example, if a child is sick, his body is uncomfortable, and his heart is uncomfortable, but adults have not found that treating children according to routines will make them particularly "stubborn."

In short, children should be carefully observed and patiently induced, and they must not be antagonistic. In this way, either adults can't stand children after all, and finally listen to them, which encourages children's bad temper of being dissatisfied with anything; Either parents can't help hitting their children, which will hurt their hearts.

Make certain rules for the baby.

Know your rules, but make sure your children know what they are. Tell him clearly: "We can't hit people. If you are angry, tell Mingming that you want the toy back. " Or "don't forget, you must hold your mother's hand in the parking lot."

If your child has a problem following these rules (every child has one), find another way. For example, he beat his sister because he felt left out, asked him to help feed or bathe his sister, and then arranged a special time for him to be alone with you. If he slips out of bed because he is afraid of the dark, put a flashlight on the bedside table.

Give children some choices.

Give the child a chance to make his own choices and let him exercise his newly acquired autonomy within a controllable range. For example, ask your child, "Do you think you can cross the road, or should I hold your hand?" "Do you want to set the table, or do you want to bring the food to the table and wait for me to set it?" I believe this will be more effective than telling him what he must do!

Children should control their emotions when they do something wrong.

Although you may want to scold your child for doing something he shouldn't have done, you should control yourself. When the child did something wrong, he was already scared. If his mood is further affected, it will not make him do better. In fact, scolding him may only make his future behavior worse.