As early as more than half a century ago, Mr. Tao Xingzhi infiltrated the idea of democracy and tolerance into his educational practice and made it play a wonderful role.
When Mr. Tao Xingzhi was the principal, one day he saw a boy hitting his classmate with a brick, so he stopped him and told him to go to the principal's office. When President Tao returned to the office, the boy was already waiting there. Tao Xingzhi took out a candy for this classmate: This is a reward for you, just because you got to the office before me. Then he took out another candy and said, this is for you, too. I won't let you hit your classmates, so you stopped at once, which shows that you respect me.
The boy took the second candy in doubt, and Mr. Tao added: As far as I know, you beat your classmate because he bullied girls, which shows that you have a sense of justice. I will reward you with another candy.
At this time, the boy was moved to tears and said, principal, I was wrong. If my classmates are wrong again, I can't take this way.
Mr. Tao then took out another candy: you have admitted your mistake, and I will reward you with another piece. I ran out of candy and our conversation was over.
2. Selected examples of tolerance II:
A venerable elder found a chair near the high wall of the temple. He knew that someone had used it to cross the wall and come outside the temple. The elder moved a chair and waited here by feeling. At midnight, the young monk climbed the wall and jumped on the chair. He felt that the chair was not as hard, soft and even a little elastic as before. After landing, the young monk looked intently and realized that the chair had become an elder. It turned out that he jumped on the elder, who picked him up with his spine. The young monk left anxiously, and then waited nervously for the elders. But the elder didn't do it. He didn't mention what you know and what I know. The young monk was inspired by the tolerance of his elders. He kept his heart and never climbed over the wall again. Through hard training, he became the leader of the temple and became the elder here a few years later. Coincidentally, a teacher found that a student often drew with his head down in class. One day, he went over to pick up the student's painting and found that the characters in the painting were grinning themselves. The teacher didn't get angry, but just smiled stupidly and asked the students to process after class and draw more vividly. Since then, the student has never painted in class, and he has done well in all subjects. Later, he became an accomplished cartoonist.
3. Selected examples of tolerances:
Guan Zhong was a native of Qi in the Spring and Autumn Period. He is handsome, knowledgeable and knowledgeable, and has the ability to help the country and the world. When he was young, he did business with Bao and made money. Guan Zhong always took more. Everyone is very angry. Bao Shu Ya said: Guan Zhong is not a greedy person. He took more because his family was poor. I'm willing to let him take more.
After that, Guan Zhong joined the army. Every time he fought, he shrank behind and retreated ahead. Others called him a coward, and Bao stepped forward to stop others from laughing at him, saying that Guan Zhong did this because he had an old mother who needed his support.
Guan Zhong was very moved and said: It was my parents who gave birth to me, and it was Bao who really understood me! From then on, the two of them became friends of life and death.
It is said that Qi Xianggong has two sons. The eldest son is Jiao, and his mother is from Shandong. The youngest son is Xiao Bai, and his mother is from Juguo. Guan Zhong said to Bao: After death, either Jiao succeeded to the throne or he succeeded to the throne. At this moment, we will be teachers for Jiao and Jiao respectively. No matter who is the monarch, we will recommend each other.
4. Selected examples of tolerances:
There is a girl who is going to give a concert. The poster says that she is a student of Liszt. The day before the performance, Liszt appeared in front of the girl at the moment. The girl was frightened and sobbed, claiming that she had no livelihood and asking for forgiveness. Liszt asked her to play bullets for him and gave him some advice. Finally, he said brightly, come on stage and act boldly. You are my student now. You can announce to the theater manager that the last program of the party will be played by the teacher for the students. Liszt played the last song at the concert.
5. Selected examples of tolerances:
When Li Wenjing (formerly known as Li Ling) was prime minister, there was a crazy scholar who knocked on a horse and sent a letter criticizing Li Wenjing's shortcomings.
Li Wenjing humbly thanked him: "I will read it in detail when I get home!" The scholar was furious and immediately reprimanded Li Wenjing, saying, "You are in a big position and can't help the world, but you don't take the blame and resign, making way for others, which hinders the career of talents. Can you not be ashamed? "
Li Wenjing immediately respectfully repeatedly said: "I have asked for dismissal many times, but the emperor did not allow it, so I dare not leave!" "
When Li Wenjing talked with the scholar, he never intended to lose his temper or disobey.