Educated people should be polite, temperamental and educated. This requires efforts from all sides to make yourself better.
China is an ancient civilization with a long history, and is known as the "state of etiquette" in the world. As I said, the working people have always attached importance to moral cultivation and civility, and have a long tradition of virtue. And a modern civilized person with high quality and culture must have good manners.
So, how can we become educated people? Let's work hard from the following aspects. First of all, pay attention to personal gfd, manners, speech, dress, etc. For gfd, cleanliness is required: face, neck and hands should be cleaned; Hair should be cut on time and washed frequently; Nails are often cut; Pay attention to oral hygiene and don't chew gum in public; Take a bath and change clothes often. In terms of manners, we should be strict with ourselves in standing, sitting, walking, manners and movements. The ancients had an image summary of human posture: "Stand like a pine, walk like the wind, sit like a bell, lie like a bow." Beautiful standing posture gives people a feeling of being tall and straight and spirit; Sitting posture should be correct, generous and decent; Walk chest, shoulders and arms swing naturally, and the pace is moderate; The expression should show respect, understanding and goodwill to people, with a smile; Speak sincerely and kindly, use civilized language, be concise and decent. Dress should be clean, tidy and decent, conform to students' identity, and reflect the energetic and upward style of students in the new century. Secondly, pay attention to the etiquette in public places. Etiquette in public places includes etiquette in schools, classrooms, dormitories, theaters and other places, as well as walking, asking for directions, taking a bus and shopping. Campus etiquette is very important. In classrooms and dormitories, we should observe public order and not make noise. The flag-raising ceremony is the most solemn. This embodies the national flag of civilization and blood, which is more distinct under the encirclement of etiquette. Classroom etiquette has a great influence on teachers' teaching, which is directly related to the honor and cohesion of a class and reflects the class spirit and appearance of this class. Etiquette is also indispensable among students. It is like lubricating oil, which makes the rough friction disappear. If there are contradictions, do more self-reflection. Understand each other and tolerate others. Being kind to others, being approachable, having one's heart to heart, taking Qi Mei as an example, making dates push pears and making people feel at home all illustrate the politeness principle. When everyone comes to this world, learning to be a man begins with being polite. In society, people are always asked to be polite. Civilized manners not only bring happiness and harmony to others and society, but also create a loving environment and bring happiness and warmth to yourself.
In modern social life, when China strode to the world, civility and politeness have become an integral part of the investment environment and national image. Civilized etiquette is in our daily life, right around us. Let's all improve our sense of etiquette, pay attention to etiquette, insist on training according to the requirements of the school, find out our own shortcomings, and correct the behaviors that don't talk about civilized manners in time. Only in this way can we establish a civilized and polite manner, gradually develop the habit of civilized manners, and become a modern civilized person with temperament, grace and education.
Self-cultivation is the embodiment of one's moral quality, which is often reflected in one's words and deeds.
An educated person's speech in daily life is healthy and clean. There is no discrimination or hatred in their words, only friendliness and humor.
Whether a person has self-cultivation depends largely on his perseverance. You see, people who have no perseverance often don't learn well, and of course there is no need to talk about training. Self-cultivation should be cultivated from an early age and always adhered to. Otherwise, how can there be a rumor that it takes only three days to learn badly and three years to learn well?
A cultured person will not deliberately dress himself up, just as Li Bai, a great poet in the Tang Dynasty, said, "Clear water produces hibiscus, and it is naturally carved." On the contrary, an uneducated person will blindly pursue it and cover up his inner emptiness with heavy makeup and strange clothes. Self-cultivation is self-cultivation
You should also be cultivated when you speak. I think speaking in culture means speaking in the language of content, knowledge, art, organization and civilization. Speaking of which, I remembered some recent bad habits in our class.
The first is the name of the flower. Most of these flower names are ugly words aimed at students' physical defects and privacy. As long as you call it out, you can always hear a few strange smiles, followed by a burst of abuse and chasing. This kind of behavior, whether joking or not, is really a sign of lack of self-cultivation.
There is also vulgar language, dirty language, which not only damages one's own image, but also hurts others, and sometimes brings right and wrong. Therefore, I advise you to be educated.
An educated person can always be respected by others.
How can we be educated? In fact, every word and deed in daily life, even a small detail, can reflect a person's cultivation.
For example, a seemingly simple closing action, a cultured person just pushes it gently; An uneducated person may kick the door, followed by a loud noise that scares you and leaves his "beautiful" footprint.
For another example, in the park on weekends, a group of people make a scene like the Monkey King in the Heavenly Palace, which not only makes a lot of noise, but also makes smoke and itching everywhere; The other kind of people not only speak softly, but also have a moderate volume of laughter that has been suppressed for a long time.
Students, cultivating it is not your talk, but your words and deeds, every move. Be an educated person, be an educated Laker, it will bring you dignity, respect and unlimited happiness!
"A person needs to be cultivated in life. Habit and self-cultivation are people's second identity. " This is what an ordinary old man said. When you are in a public place and there is no one around, you are talking loudly; When you do whatever you want, regardless of the feelings of others; When you are selfish and don't care about others, when you … have you ever thought about how others feel at this time? What will others think of you? Of course I have a deep understanding of these.
Let me tell a story first: An overseas student from China went to study in Britain. He lived in a local resident's house. The landlord is a warm and amiable old couple, and is very kind to this international student: there is no need to worry about his life at all. Every day, he returns to his "home" and delicious food is waiting for him. Every four or five days, the landlord's old mother will force him to change clothes, and then help him wash them before ironing them. It can be said that the old couple treated China students like their own sons, and China students felt very happy. However, after a period of time, the landlord's attitude towards him gradually cooled down. Finally, one day, the old landlord let him know the reason: he often goes home in the middle of the night to close the door, walks loudly and coughs, regardless of others' sleep; When urinating, you often don't open the toilet seat and spill urine on the seat. After learning the reason, the China student was not only ashamed, but also thought that others had made a mountain out of a molehill. Then he chose to leave and find another "tolerant" family. However, I didn't expect to go to five or six families in a row and ask him the same question: "I heard that you don't open the toilet seat when you urinate?" The tone and expression made the China international student realize that this is an incredibly serious matter for any of them. It is conceivable that in the face of such problems, international students can only turn and run away in shame. After listening to this story, I also understand that thinking of others, caring for and respecting others is a person's minimum accomplishment, which is reflected in some small things.
I remember one time, my mother just finished cleaning the room and was so tired that she was sweating. As for me, when my interest in playing chess came, I kept urging my mother to play chess with me. Mother said angrily, "you are too ignorant." Mom worked hard to clean up your room, so that you can have a comfortable living environment. Seeing your mother so tired, you don't know how distressed you are, and you are still pestering your mother to play with you. Right? " After listening to my mother's words, I blushed and bowed my head in shame; Yes, my mother is in poor health, works hard and has to do a lot of housework when she goes home. As her son, why didn't I realize this? I only think about myself. I should care more about my mother and share some housework for her ... since then, I have learned a lot: when my mother cleans the room, I also help; After a hard day's work, hit her back and rub her shoulder; When my mother was ill, I gave her water and medicine. ...
I used to have a bad eating habit, that is, I scattered rice grains everywhere when eating, dropped such dishes into other dishes when picking vegetables, and didn't use my own bowl when scooping soup. Then, the soup spilled all over the table, and I just put my favorite dishes into my bowl, regardless of my family or guests. Although my mother reminded me of it countless times, I still went my own way. Finally, at a dinner party, my father couldn't stand it any longer. He said to me sullenly, "It's really outrageous. Who spilled rice and soup on the table like you? " You may think this is a trivial matter, but it is these seemingly trivial things that will affect your life if you are not careful. I hope you will pay attention to these' details' in your future life and be an educated person. "Dad's serious words made me feel ashamed and moved. Therefore, I made up my mind to get rid of these bad habits in the details of my life. I really want to be an educated, polite and respected person.