In the vast history, how many people repeatedly ask the same question, what determines the fate of the whole world? I think the answer is like what a philosopher said: "Your mentality is your real master. Either you control life or life controls you. Your mentality determines who is the mount and who is the jockey. "
Mentality and life are always tied together.
The so-called mentality is the abbreviation of psychological attitude and the tendency of people's psychology to respond to various information stimuli. This tendency of psychological reaction will guide and dominate people's thinking, choice, speech and behavior. Han Xin has the mentality of not losing big because of small, willing to be humiliated by leg lifts, and eventually become a generation of famous players; Liu Bang had the mentality of building a high wall, accumulating grain and slowly becoming king, but he showed weakness with Xiang Yu everywhere and finally won Wan Li Jiangshan. Gou Jian, the King of Yue, has a beautiful saying that it is never too late for a gentleman to take revenge for ten years.
A person who lives in society always plays one or more social roles. Everyone's role is different, so he will have his own special mentality, which will inevitably be used to treat life, career and life.
With a correct attitude towards learning, it is possible to calm down and study hard, gain something and lay the foundation for progress. The ancients said that "the book has its own golden house", but modern society is the era of knowledge economy, knowledge is power, knowledge is benefit, and knowledge is productivity. However, the process of acquiring knowledge is sometimes boring. If you can enjoy learning and constantly experience the pleasure of progress, you can take the initiative to overcome the difficulties or various distractions in learning and stick to the established learning tasks or goals. However, a person with a negative learning attitude regards learning as a burden. When encountering difficulties in the learning process, he will take an evasive or complaining attitude instead of actively seeking solutions. It is impossible to talk about what positive emotional experience learning will bring him, and the effect of learning can be imagined.
With a correct working attitude, it is possible to obey spontaneously and sincerely, stimulate potential and achieve several times the previous work results. Imagine how an employee who complains all day can produce high-quality products. How can an employee who sighs all day expect to forge ahead in the journey of life? How can an employee who doesn't care about the quality of his work win everyone's respect? Only by working with sincerity, optimism and indomitable enthusiasm can we avoid hard work, give full play to our strengths, work closely with leaders and colleagues, be loyal to the enterprise, work hard and create the greatest value.
Only with a correct attitude towards life can we be optimistic, open-minded, broad-minded and positive. It is happy to enjoy life and happy to create happiness. Whether you are happy or happy in life, you also need a good attitude. As Goethe said, "Human happiness lies in inner happiness." Buddhism believes that everything changes with the heart, the environment is created by the heart, and all troubles are born by the heart. What kind of mental state a person has will produce what kind of life reality. Facing the same open window, some people will breathe fresh air with joy, while others will frown and hate the arrival of mosquitoes and flies. Different mentality will inevitably lead to different personalities and behaviors, which will make a world of difference. Bad mentality is the main source of bad personality and bad life, the control tower of our destiny, and the only thing we can fully grasp. Therefore, we must understand that it is often our own fault to complain about the bad environment; Blame others for being too narrow-minded, often because they are not open-minded; We can't control the weather, but we can change our mood; You can't change your appearance, but you can smile; You can't control others, but you can control yourself; You can't predict tomorrow, but you should live every day with your heart. Let go of unnecessary self-abandonment, take active actions and create a happy life with hardworking hands and wisdom!
However, if you want to succeed, you should pay attention to overcoming the wrong mentality of feeling good about yourself. Zhao Kuo was an armchair strategist and was completely annihilated; Ma Su lost his street pavilion and was beheaded since he went to college. The wrong mentality of "how bold people are and how productive things are" has also cost us a heavy price. This is the heartbreaking result of self-righteous wrong mentality. Therefore, if you want to have a correct mentality, you must constantly strengthen your study, learn from books, learn from social practice, constantly improve your knowledge, enrich your life experience, and enhance your ability to find, analyze and solve problems, so as to grasp the standard line of mentality and the steering wheel of life.
Attitude determines the success or failure of life, and a good attitude is half the battle. Students, please adjust your mentality!