Selfishness, that is, "only for yourself, only for personal interests"; Selflessness means "not only looking after your own interests" (Advanced Chinese Dictionary). Conceptually, "selflessness: not just taking care of your own interests", obviously, "selflessness" is also a relative explanation. The so-called "not only take care of your own interests", that is to say, while taking care of the interests of others, you should also consider your own interests; Or, on the basis of ensuring your own interests, think about the interests of others. Simply put, selflessness is based on a relatively small degree of selfishness.
Selfishness and selflessness belong to the category of morality. There are two typical theories about the origin of morality: one is the theory of "the will of God"; The second is the theory of human nature. "Theory of human nature" can be divided into two kinds. One is that morality is innate sympathy, moral sense or preset rationality that can distinguish good from evil; The other holds that morality originates from people's feelings and desires. But no matter which view, it doesn't reveal the true essence of morality. The history of scientific materialism tells us that morality is produced in a certain mode of production or economic relationship in human society, restricted by people's material life, and changes with the changes of social and economic relations.
Morality will change with the change of social and economic relations, and the standards of selfishness and selflessness have never been determined. The criteria for judging selfishness and selflessness will change with the different objective environment. In the same example, the evaluation of that person changes because of his behavior change; Because the environment has changed, so has his behavior. More broadly, the same behavior of the same person may be judged differently because of different environments. You spit the finished chewing gum into the trash can. In a society where everyone litters, you are selfless. In a society where everyone consciously abides by public morality, someone will ask you: Why don't you wrap the gum in paper and throw it away? Then you are selfish. This also shows that it is impossible to say that human nature is absolutely selfish or absolutely selfless.
Selfishness comes from inner desires, which can also be said to be a manifestation of individualism. Individualism is the opposite of collectivism. Understanding individualism in a broad sense means grasping the historical process of individualism development from the historical chain of the whole western culture, and understanding individualism in a narrow sense is the French political commentator Charles? 6? 1 Aleksi? 6? 1 Germany? 6? 1 tocqueville used the word individualism for the first time in his book On Democracy in America to summarize the political, economic, cultural and moral phenomena he saw in America. It was inspired by Tocqueville that later generations accepted the term individualism and extended it to summarize the whole ideology of the western bourgeoisie.
But we should understand individualism from two aspects: general individualism and extreme individualism. The so-called general individualism is the individualism expounded by Locke, Smith, Tocqueville and others. This individualism is a kind of "moderate" egoism from the perspective of human nature and ethics. It emphasizes individual standard, individual center and individual supremacy. Of course, it also emphasizes that people are selfish, but relatively speaking, it has the characteristics of "reasonable" egoism, that is, "subjectively for themselves and objectively for society"; The so-called extreme individualism not only emphasizes and highlights the individual, but also completely denies the value of society and others, and understands the freedom, equality, value, interests and rights of individuals as absolute, even at the expense of others to pursue their own value goals.
In real life, we can only advocate collectivism and guard against individualism. The proliferation of individualism will bring a lot of harm to society: it will lead to the corruption of social moral conditions; Leading to the deterioration of social interpersonal relationships; Lead to social disorder; Leading to the breeding and development of negative corruption; Leading to the spread of negative emotions and the disintegration of social cohesion; Leading to indifference of human nature; Leading to the lack of care in society and so on.
In addition, because people are relatively selfish, selfishness will naturally be associated with "evil human nature". Humanity is really an old topic, and it is also a topic with many answers. Confucius said that human nature is similar and acknowledged, but did not say what human nature is; Mencius said that human nature is good, Xunzi said that human nature is evil, Zhuangzi said that there is no distinction between good and evil, and so on. Most of the sages in China expounded human nature from the perspective of social ethics. After the Renaissance, the European bourgeoisie regarded human nature as perceptual desire, rationality, freedom, equality, fraternity and so on. Most of them explain human nature from the perspective of human's essential existence and natural rights, because they oppose the bondage of feudal system to personality. As for "evil" and "good", there is no conclusion so far.
Furthermore, regarding selfish desires, the Buddha emphasized that there is no emptiness; Tao said that "nothing" gives birth to "being" and "doing nothing without doing anything", which is consistent with the Buddhist view. However, despite the thirst of Buddhism and Taoism, all beings in the world are unwilling to give up their pursuit of selfish desires. Buddhists pay attention to merit and become Buddhists, while Taoists want to become immortals and live a long life. In fact, this in itself is a manifestation of desire.
The sages respected by the world can't answer the "evil" or "good" of human nature, so how can we conclude that selfishness is the expression of "inherent evil"? It is difficult for Buddhists and Taoists who are worshipped to be selfless. How can we ask all beings in the world to be selfless?
What is the standard of morality? It's hard to measure. A society has a social moral standard, which requires as many people as possible to approach. What are the moral standards of modern people? The carrier of morality is the consciousness of most people, which requires most people in this society to have a sound independent personality. Marx pointed out in the Outline of Feuerbach: "The essence of man is not an abstract thing inherent in a single person. In reality, it is the sum of all social relations. Human nature is realistic and concrete; Humanity or humanity is shaped by social relations; The content of life consists of complex and diverse social relations and social activities; Human nature will change with the development of social relations.
It can end like this. Selfishness is neither good nor evil. Selfishness is also the product of society. Morality is the defining standard of social good and evil based on "human nature". We should seek a suitable sample of the definitions of "selfishness" and "selflessness" and gradually push this boundary to "selflessness".