How to educate children to protect themselves and practice interpersonal relationships with children patiently?
Successful experience is the best encouragement. Such an example may let children know that trustworthy adults are actually good targets for help. If you don't have personal experience to share, you can also find books or picture books in this field for your children, such as "I don't like you doing this to me!" ""you can't bully me! These two picture books should be able to inspire children from the protagonists who have similar experiences. Children are born with no understanding of interpersonal relationships. Please listen to him patiently, encourage him and practice with him!
Do children usually fully express their ideas?
Usually at home, if parents can let their children fully express their ideas and discuss them, it is to cultivate self-confidence and learn the best way to deal with problems.
I think you need to think about it first. When a child loses his temper with his family, can his opinions be fully expressed? When the child's idea is wrong and you don't allow him to do what he wants, do you have an appropriate explanation to make him understand and point out the correct idea and practice? If the child's idea is correct, do you accept and affirm his opinion?
If you don't feel autocratic and don't put too much pressure on your children, their performance outside is still shrinking. It may be because of the child's personality, or it may be because he is more mature than his peers and left earlier. Self-centered? In the psychological stage, I learned to examine peer relations and other people's feelings.
In any case, this kind of experience is a learning opportunity for children to get along with each other, so unless the situation is quite serious, parents had better not make a fuss because they are in a hurry to protect their children, let alone come forward to help them solve problems.
Help children make clear the difference between teasing and bullying.
When children come to complain or ask for help, please give them a relaxed and rational conversation atmosphere, aiming at every incident? Case? Help children clarify the so-called teasing and bullying, is there? Location? Different questions? Is there anything that can be improved in children's own words and deeds? Is it the rude words and deeds made by the other party because they are not sensible, or is it a real malicious attack?
Let children learn to ponder other people's thoughts and moods, and also find out their own emotions, learn to distinguish between right and wrong and seriousness of things, know which ones can be tolerated and ignored, and which ones should stick to their own positions. Under what circumstances, they must immediately ask teachers or parents for help.
If it is just a common ridicule or friction between children, it is necessary to give some practical speaking skills for children to practice communication and expression. As long as children do well, they should be encouraged immediately to help build self-confidence.
Share personal experiences with children.
If parents have similar experiences in the process of growing up, they can share them with their children, which should be very useful to them. I remember when I was in a big class in kindergarten, one of the six children at my table looked like a big sister. She is extremely slow in doing things and eating snacks, but she always asks everyone at that table to wait for her and not let us go out to play first. Endure for a long time, one day, I finally unbearable, get up the courage to report her overbearing words and deeds to the teacher.
In my mind, I was so nervous that I was incoherent. What few minutes of complaint experience is really unparalleled? Dragon? Fortunately, the teacher listened to me patiently. Afterwards, the teacher did not scold the elder sister, but listed several behaviors that the teacher did not appreciate and were not allowed in class. As a result, the classmate was frightened and restrained immediately, and the children at our table were much more relaxed and happy from then on.
How can children protect themselves when they are in danger? 1. What should I do if a stranger asks you to lead the way?
If someone asks you for directions on the road, you should enthusiastically show them the way, but in case they let you lead the way, you should also be vigilant, even if you are very familiar with this place, even if it is not far from your position.
You can gently tell him: Mom and Dad won't let me go with strangers. You can go to the intersection and ask the policeman to help you lead the way. ? If a stranger pesters you, you can shout loudly to attract the attention of passers-by.
Second, when you are alone at home, someone suddenly knocks at the door. You go to the door and look through the door mirror. You don't know the man knocking at the door. What should you do?
1. When mom and dad are not at home, you can turn on the TV or audio equipment, which can make the bad guys mistakenly think that there are people at home and dare not do bad things.
Never open the door to strangers casually, but lock the door in time. Just like when parents are at home, they call their parents and say that someone they don't know knocks at the door to scare away the bad guys.
Don't open the door for a stranger who claims to be a repairman of coal, water and electricity. Or to collect various fees.
If someone claims to be a colleague of your parents and can call out your name, you should also be vigilant not to open the door, but you can ask him what's the matter and write it down and tell your parents.
If the stranger still doesn't leave, call the neighbors or call the police.
Third, at school, senior children surround you and ask you for pocket money, threatening to hit you if you don't give it. What should you do at this time?
1. You can't be afraid. Try to say something nice to show that you have no money and avoid conflict.
If they don't buy, tell them to go to the classroom to get money, take the opportunity to escape, and report to your teacher immediately, describing their characteristics, looks, clothes colors, height and thinness, so as to find them and let them receive education.
3. If not, stall for time and shout when you see other adults or teachers passing by? Help? . Because if you give them money, they will blackmail you next time.
4. If the geographical location is remote at that time and many people can't leave, you can give them money first. But you must tell the teacher afterwards to avoid going to a remote place alone in the future.
Go home from school, report what happened at school to your parents and let them help you solve it.
Fourth, on Sunday, you play alone in the garden. A stranger tells you that your father was hit by a car and is being rescued in the hospital. He wants you to go with him to see his father. What should you do at this time?
1. Don't believe him easily. Maybe he's a bad guy who lied to you.
2. Write down the facial features of that person. If he has a car, remember his license plate number
3. Go your way. If he still follows, call for help while looking for the police uncle and report the situation to the police uncle.
If you can't find the police for the time being, go to a crowded place.
5. Call home or dad's office to confirm if anything happened to dad.
5. What should I do if I get a phone call from a stranger at home?
1. If the caller wants to talk to mom or dad, tell him that mom or dad can't come to the phone now.
Write down the time, name, phone number and message he called accurately.
Don't let that person know that you are the only one at home.
If the phone call from a stranger is not for your parents, but says some dirty words, don't tell him anything and hang up the phone immediately.
5. Write down the date and time of harassing phone calls and tell your parents.
6. If he calls again next time you are alone at home, call the police immediately.
6. You were walking happily on your way to school when suddenly a hideous stranger asked you to get in his car. What should you do at this time?
1. Don't panic, don't shout? Help? And try to break free.
2. Run to crowded or busy places, such as shopping malls and supermarkets, and ask the guards or security guards for help.
3. Tell nearby businesses or adults and ask them to help inform their families, schools or call the police.
In case you are caught in the car, you will be very scared at this moment, but you must keep calm and don't make any noise, so as not to anger the bad guys and get you hurt.
Try to remember the appearance, characteristics, clothes, age and license plate number of the bad guys, and remember the roads and distinctive buildings that the cars pass by.
6. If the bad guy wants your home phone number and parents' names, try to cooperate with him and meet his requirements, so as to minimize the chance of injury.
7. What should you do if you walk alone and find a suspicious stranger following you?
1. If you find yourself being followed, you'd better go to a crowded place. If there is a police station nearby or you see a traffic policeman directing traffic, please call the police to help you at once.
If you can't find the police, you can go to the department store or shop, borrow the phone from the clerk and ask your family to pick you up.
Be careful not to be chased into alleys or dead ends by bad guys. If you encounter such a situation, don't be embarrassed. Just ring someone else's doorbell or shout? Help? .
You can carry a whistle with you at ordinary times. When you meet a bad guy, you can blow your whistle hard to attract the attention of passers-by and scare off the bad guy.
Be careful when you go out, pay attention to the movement around you, and try not to walk alone on the dark and remote pony road, so as not to give gangsters a chance.
6. Walk with your classmates on the way to and from school, or ask your parents to pick you up and drop you off within a period of time.
8. Take a taxi to school and find the driver driving on an unfamiliar road. What should you do?
1. Ask the driver if he is going the wrong way and explain where you are going again. Don't panic at this time.
Find something wrong, excuse to go to the toilet or have something urgent, and let him stop by the side of the road. Get off the bus quickly and go to a crowded place, find the traffic police, explain the situation and ask him to help you go home or go back to school.
If the driver continues to drive, quietly roll down the window and wait for the red light to stop, shouting at pedestrians and vehicles outside the window? Help? .
It's best to sit in the back when taking a taxi, and it's not easy for the driver to control an accident.
9. What should I do if I meet a stranger and invite him to dinner?
If someone gives you something to eat, you must politely refuse. Many bad guys seem to be very kind, but they often use the characteristics of children who can't tell the truth from the false and have greedy mouths to lure you into their trap.
They often put drugs in their food. After eating these foods, you may fall asleep, and the bad guys will take the opportunity to kidnap you. If you have resolutely said no to eat, and the other person is still pestering you, then shout loudly to attract the attention of the people next to you.
10. What should I do when I come home from school and find someone stealing?
If you go home after going out and find that the door lock is broken, or the door is open, and you know that no one is at home at this time, then you should think that there may be thieves at home.
1. Don't go in at this time, let alone make a hullabaloo about. The thief may still be in the room. It's dangerous to go in at this time.
2. Go to a neighbor's house and ask an adult to call the police 1 10, or go to a familiar grocery store for help.
Call mom and dad, tell them what happened, and let mom and dad go home quickly.
4. If you find a suspicious and strange vehicle downstairs or near the door, write down its license plate number, color and model characteristics and tell the police or adults.
In this unexpected situation, it is most important to leave the house quickly to protect yourself.
What should I do when someone tries to touch your body under your clothes?
When the child is four or five years old, parents should explain to the child which parts are private areas, and no one, including people they know, has the right to touch them. Even if the doctor does the examination, he should ask the guardian to be present for supervision. This is the legal right of children.
If someone wants to touch dad's personal privacy area, you must insist? No? Then leave quickly. Be sure to tell your parents or teachers afterwards.