Listening and understanding: First of all, listen to children's thoughts and feelings, respect their opinions and understand their confusion and struggle. Try to put yourself in their shoes and give them care and support.
Build a trust relationship: build a trust relationship with your child to make him feel safe and understood. By sharing their experiences and stories with them, let them know that everyone has rebellion, but they can all overcome it.
Set clear goals and rules: Set clear goals and rules with children to let them know what is acceptable behavior and what is unacceptable behavior. Ensure the rationality and consistency of the rules, and set clear consequences for violations.
Establish positive communication methods: encourage children to express their views and feelings and have an open dialogue with them. Avoid accusations and attacks, but use positive language and constructive feedback.
Stimulate interest points: find things and activities that children are interested in and encourage children to participate. By cultivating hobbies and talents, they can increase their self-confidence and self-esteem.
Establish a reward mechanism: set some small rewards for children to motivate them to make positive behaviors and changes. These rewards can be material or spiritual, such as praise, encouragement or special activities.
Cultivate sense of responsibility and independence: give children a proper sense of responsibility and independence, and let them learn to solve problems and take responsibility by themselves. Encourage them to participate in housework, school activities or community service, and cultivate a sense of responsibility and accomplishment.
Seek professional help: If the child's rebellious behavior continues to be serious, affecting his study and life, or other psychological problems, such as anxiety and depression, it is recommended to seek the help of professional psychological counselors or educational experts.
Establish a support network: establish contact with children's friends, teachers or other trusted people, let them know about their children's situation, and jointly provide support and help for their children. Keep in touch with the school teacher to understand the child's performance in school and the areas that need improvement.
Patience and persistence: It takes patience and persistence to educate rebellious children. Don't expect to see changes immediately, give children enough time to adapt and adjust. Continue to provide support and guidance to help them gradually get out of the rebellious period.
The most important thing is to maintain a loving and understanding attitude and believe that children have the ability to overcome the rebellious period and become active and responsible adults. By using the above methods and strategies, children can be helped to establish positive behavior patterns and cultivate healthy psychological and emotional States.